My mission is to aid gender and sexually diverse people find joy…
and to change the world.
You should never have to justify your identity to a provider. Whether you are transgender, lesbian, gay, bisexual, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender nonconforming, kinky, queer, questioning, pansexual, asexual, detransitioner/retransitioner, Dominant, submissive, a sex worker, monogamous, polyamorous, neurodivergent, neurospicy, neurotypical, or unicorn... even cisgender, straight/hetero, or vanilla… our goal together is your happiness.
I provide culturally competent, compassionate, trauma-informed, and affirming psychotherapy to help you make decisions about your own life. You can be empowered.
I am also devoted to education – of other providers, of allies, of organizations – and I share my expertise through books and other writing, lectures, workshops, interviews, as well as through clinical supervision. I have made several hundred educational appearances throughout the United States and in Europe. I have also served on numerous boards and in other advocacy projects.
We can be defiant against the current physical and legislative assaults on our identities where ‘they’ bully the vulnerable, inciting hate, violence, fear, and despair. If you, like so many are distressed about the current world… I can provide support and hope.
“How fucking wonderful that I have you as a therapist. I’m in awe of how grateful I am.”
— Long-Term Therapy Client